Friday, August 21, 2009
How do you know?......
How do you know when it's time to move on? Time to let go? Or let that person go? I have had a few relationships and in the begining it's fresh and new......the unknowing...but for me there always comes a point in time where I just give up! I do not know if I am more happy being alone or maybe that person is not fulfilling what I need. I always say that no person can make you happy or complete you..you have to do that for yourself....but you need a person to compliment you...to understand you, to be there for you when times are hard! But when you have all that and something is missing...then what? What do you say? What do you do? Is it me? Is it you? Live is complicated at times and I guess I am living in my own complicated world...just trying to cope...................
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How does anyone know when to finally say, " I quit, I give up, I'm done trying to save this!" At some point we all need to look at what we would lose by quiting, and if that loss is more than we can bear . . . something we could never replace in a million years . . . or if the loss could be replaced by someone that actually fulfills your needs. Someone that can make you happy; true, only you can choose to be happy, but there is someone out there that can potentially make you happier than you ever have in your whole life, by meeting your needs, helping you along the way as a team, treating you as an equal, pulling their fair share, and treating you like a princess. If you then have someone trying as hard as they can to help you be happy and content, and your still not happy, then it is not meant to be. Someone that gives to you selflessly, provides for you unconditionally, thinks of you first constantly and you still are not happy with this person, then there is no Love. No passion. No tolerance for the little faults in all of us. When you "have all that and something is missing" you need to look for that someone that does "have all that" and you feel like nothing is missing. You can't breath without them. You can't work, sleep, or do anything fun without having them with you, and being a part of all that is your life. When you can't imagine a future without them, then you know it is right and you need to fighting as hard as you can to keep things together; to not quit. Your right, it is a complicated world. Relationships are tough, especially in this day and age where values seem to have disappeared forever. Keep trying to cope . . . hang in there . . . you'll be fine.
Thank you for the advice...it took me a couple of days to soak it all in and I keep coming back to read your comment....sometimes I guess you need a third party to clarify things...I am pretty sure this won't be the last blog of these issues...but thanks a million!
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